another holiday
Sept 30 - Ask a Stupid Question Day!
i guess if we can have talk like a pirate day we can have anything!
Ever since we were at Chris's annual check up yesterday (at the veterans clinic in Salem)I have been trying to figure out how to post this. Past doctors from the VA clinic have noted abnormally high pulse rates before, but they have always shrugged it off, in the way that the veteran's admin often does. The new doc he saw this year was aghast when she heard that all we have been told to do is track his pulse rate (his blood pressure is suprisingly normal). She wants to put him on a heart monitor because she believes he is regularly experiencing small heart attacks. She can find no cause for his resting pulse rate to be running over 100 consitantly, and then for no discernible reason dipping into the 50s (causing pain to radiate, and sometimes dizziness, fatigue, or momentary weakness) before speeding right back up to 100+. For those of you who may not know, Chris is just 25 years old. We are all pretty nervous now, and if you have ever dealt with the VA medical system you will know that they don't do anything with any speed what so ever! They aren't even doing his blood work until next month! (on the 21st of October). So, now it is a waiting game and we hope he is ok. Chris told me last night that as he told his father on the phone he almost cried as he told Jerry. I am trying desperately not to cry as I write this. Indiana and I need Chris. We love him. So, please, everyone, pray, cross your fingers, telekinesis, whatever you can. I will keep everyone informed as Veteran's slowly works to hopefully fix whatever is wrong.
Indiana loves being on the floor and rolling around. He scoots and rolls all around so I hem him in with pillows and the gator. He rolls on the blanket with his toys and chats at them.
This friendly (and I am sure hungry) white duck came up to us and just posed and modeled for us! We took several pictures of the little darling, until he realized we had not brought any bread for him to eat and he wandered away. There is a local bakery store that sells week-old "duck" bread in large grocery bags for a dollar. Many, many locals buy it and feed the ducks and geese as they walk through the park so the majority of the ducks will just come right up (often in a swarm!)and beg for their hand-outs!
I heard, sometime back, the term "walk about" (I think it was actually in the movie "crocodile Dundee" ... Sad, huh). Anyways I always liked the sound of it. I like to "walk about" now as a way to lose weight. I have started to leave the digital camera in on of the many handy zipper pockets that are on our stroller. Today we captured some of the beauty of my hometown. This one was taken at the city park that is only 3 blocks from home. It has a nice paved walking trail all the way around it, and a dock that in the summer-time has pedal boats for rent. If you look closely at the picture you may notice a blue heron out on the floating dock. For the end of September the weather is great! Blue Skies, 69 degrees (Fahrenheit), and a nice mild breeze; Perfect for a stroll.


Often times when Chris gets home from work (after his shower) he will sit in the tub with Indy. Indiana LOVES the big boy bath tub. We only used the infant tub with him once, and he hated it. In the regular bath tub he gets to kick and play and have a ball. The only thing he doesn't like about the big boy tub is getting out of it!!
The nice thing about a Johnny Jump Up is that sometimes we get an Indy all Jumped Out! Indiana had so much fun in his jumper that he just "crashed and burned" hanging in the doorway!! Wore himself out, poor little beggar. A little later in the evening, with the Beatles in the background, he and I laid on the bed together with the alligator (hey Dakota does that gator have a name or is it just gator?). Indy curled up with me and fell asleep. No rocking required. A handful of my shirt, a handful of gator snout and some snores to be proud of. All this sleep usually means a nice growth spurt. He doesn't go back to the doctor again until November, and I refuse to get on a scale, so I don't know how big he is. I guess I can break out the tape measure sometime soon, and get Chris on the scale with him! For now, the house is quiet. Chris and Indy are sitting in the recliner. The television isn't even on.
I am off to bed. But wanted to get that final post of the night/early morning put on here. Around 930am we will be heading off to Newport, Oregon. We are going to visit the aquarium, the beach, and I am sure the shops, too! Last time we went over (its about an hour drive... Give or take) Papa Harley was here, and Indiana enjoyed the aquarium so much Chris and I bought a membership. He loved the cool air outside, and the shark tubes enthralled him inside. (in this photo we were inside a shark tunnel and he couldn't take his eyes off the sharks swimming overhead) He also seemed to like the enormous tank of Jellys. This time if it isn't too crowded I think I am going to have him visit the "touch tank". That is a neat exhibit where you can feel the different marine things (such as a star fish or a sea anemone). He is right at the age where he notices different textures and enjoys comparing them. He pets kitties and doggies, and he loves the fluffy pillows in stores.

Are you easily distracted? I freely admit that I am one of those people who walks into the kitchen, looks around, and walks back out. Unsure why I went in there to begin with, until I sit down and realize I still don't have that bottle of water I was after. That is my excuse for not show-casing Indiana the last few days. That, and the fact that he looks the same every day. I always take pictures everyday, they aren't always worth sharing though. These two are worth sharing for sure! I cropped them down to just show the sheer joy on his handsome little face.
The other day I mentioned getting a baby picture of Dakota into the computer. I gave my mom the album and she cleaned the scratches out of this one. This was always one of my favorites. Looking at my boys with pride, all I can say is "I really do have the handsomest sons!" (and I am not at all humble!) They also seem to look a little bit like each other.
To update the piggie situation. I have again emailed our central office with new pictures. Today I went out the front door to get the mail and discovered a ripped up box and a broken down old plastic laundry basket on my porch. Well, on their porch, but they share with me! (the torn up carpet on the left is their "welcome mat" and
I am standing at my front door to take this picture) So , I went out back to check it out, and its only gotten worse. They have been asked to clean up by the tenants, now I just hope the property managers care enough to demand it!
So, after two posts of ranting about my awful new neighbors, I wanted to post something Happy. Something Sweet. Something, well, Indiana! (I sent an album of pictures to my mom to have her scan some baby pictures of Dakota's into the computer so I can post some of them... Just more proof on how handsome my babies are!)
RE: the previous post.
Arguably the only thing I like more than a good old beatles tune is a GREAT old Dean Martin one! I LOVE the Rat Pack. A&E is showing a wonderful biography of the Rat Pack, and its pretty interesting. About Sinatra, Martin, Davis, Lawford, & Bishop, as well as Curtis, Marilyn, Reagan, and the Kennedy's. It's Las Vegas, its California & Hollywood. Its Washington. Again I am showing my love of the 50s (oh and the early sixties), but wow. What a crew. LONG LIVE THE RAT PACK!!
Check out www.blogsearch.google.com
So, We talked it over, and Dakota got to come down and get the expensive part of his birthday gift today.
We were going to give him guild wars, but David gave it to him, so we got him the new PS2 game, Flatout. We had his try it out here, so we could check it out, too! Indiana has a couple of small gifts for Dakota, but those he has to wait until his birthday. Dakota also told us that due to scheduling conflicts his birthday will be on the 25th this year. I think I will still let him have the rest of his gifts on the 21st. After all, that is his real birthday.
Donkey kept Indiana and gave Chris and I a chance to be a couple for an hour or so. Sadly, we actually couldn't think of anything to say that wasn't the usual stuff that we say to each other. You know the routine... "How was work?"..."Fine, how was the baby today?"..."Fine, what do you want for dinner?"..."I don't know".
That's about it. The most interesting thing going on for us today was that Chris's cartoons weren't on when they were supposed to be, so he didn't get to see Yu-Gi-Oh or Dragonball Z. I mean yeah we have the regular problems of a family that is living paycheck to paycheck, but really if the worst thing in a persons day is missing a cartoon program on the telly, then life isn't all that bad.
It has been four years. We all remember where we were and what we were doing when we heard the news. I remember the phone call, and the disbelief as I sat and watched. My sons will never live in the safe world that I envision for them. I often comment that I wish I had been raised in the fifties. I want that innocence. I want to live in a world where you can leave your doors unlocked, where you can trust your neighbor, and believe in our president! I wish for my children a better world than what they have received from us. We cant hide our heads, we can not live in fear.
Where are all the good people in the world, and why aren't they standing together in outrage? We must FIGHT back for our children. Yes, for all children, but for MY children. I guess the real hope now is that our kids do a better job taking care of the world, and each other than we have done.
little because he agreed to another outing! This time to the beach with Jessica, Chris, Indy, Zach and I next weekend! Jessica got in some smooching, but it was all with Indiana! Jessica is Indiana's number one girl! I know I had a nice time. Chris's chili was as good as always, and the company was great.
Jessica was so quiet, and shy acting, it was so cute. I noticed that they were doing the subtle "looking at each other when they aren't looking" and trying not to get caught at it. He tells Chris he likes her, too. So, we are going to continue to do things together so they can get to know each other, and see what happens! I have my fingers crossed for them.
Today: Chris works with a fellow named Daniel. He is coming to dinner this evening. (Chris made chili... He started it at 6am) Daniel seems to be a nice guy, has a decent job and is on the above average side of nice looking. So, we invited Jessica to come, too. It sounds like they are both nervous, but I keep saying it isn't a blind date. Its just dinner at our house. Jessica was upset that I had no pictures of Daniel to show her. I guess I will have to take one tonight. hehe better late than never! An update on how Chris's Cupid bit works later tonight.
So, Melody hasnt been over in a while and i have been dying to show off my new wolf to her. So, here it is. Jerry bought it for Chris and I in Sisters. I figure I have a better chance of her seeing it here than in person. (Hey Mel, this is my subtle way to say come over more, just in case you didnt get the hint!) I know I am a bad friend, I havent seen her new house yet and its only like 1/2 mile from here. So, come visit, see my new wolf. take me to your house. Chris can stay home with Indy!
Finally it is starting to look like fall! Jeans and long sleeves are a must today. Everything looks overcast and grey. No rain yet, but we are hoping that follows soon! With fall here, that means we have birthdays coming up! Geneva on the 19th. Dakota on the 21st! Nihm on the 29th. And then Donkey on the 10th of next month. As soon as we are done buying birthday gifts it is time to start CHRISTMAS shopping! Because of the way we budget it, we have to start in October so that we have enough money to shop for everyone. Besides, if I don't get started on my cards near Halloween I don't get them out on time. I like to send them out on thanksgiving weekend (that gives everyone lots of time to send return cards... We love receiving Christmas cards, they hang on the front door until after new years!) Gee, the first fall looking day and I'm already thinking of champagne and finding a new years babysitter. Crazy!
Put the two favorite things together, and WOW... Indiana Heaven!
My mom called yesterday and invited us over to her house to help her get her yard ready for the newspaper to come photograph it. The local paper is going to feature her garden in the Sunday paper, and she needed a little help doing fall clean-up. So, Indiana got to play in the backyard. He was a little fussy in his saucer, so we pulled him out of it, stripped him naked, and laid him in the grass. He liked it so much I almost didn't want to bring him home! He ate grass, and rolled around, and talked to the plants, and stared entranced as the weeping willow blew its fronds overhead.
They let him out of jail a few years ago. Someone tried to burn his house down with him in it. It wasn't me. So the new church is pretty I guess, but it isn't the same. Chris and I went at Christmas last year. I know everyone says how beautiful etc the new place is. It will always just be the new place, even though they rebuilt this new church in 1990. But I want to take him there. I suppose in the morning I will call down to the new church.
The city of Albany in their timely manner has finally come to fix the water leak in the middle of the street. Both my neighbor and I reported this leak on our corner over 10 days ago! The city came out and painted it, and then let it leak for ten more days before they came out to do anything about it. The stagnant water pooling in the gutters drew flies, and smelled pretty bad, and made me nervous about mosquitoes, considering that west Nile virus has broken out just one county over! So, at 9 am this morning they started with the jackhammer. Good thing Indy and I were already up. I am beginning to think there is a conspiracy going on to keep me from getting a good nights sleep!
We keep looking at Indiana and doing the age-old parent thing of "this looks like aunt so and so, this looks like daddy and this bit looks like uncle whoever and i don't know where that nose came from". Well, Indiana looks like Dakota a little, and like Chris a lot, and sometimes i see a hint of me. One big frown and the accompanying scream even reminded me of Uncle Nihm! Then i was sent this picture. The little boy in this picture is a straight ringer for our Indiana. The facial features are so similar. The flatter wider bridge of his nose. That bit had been confusing me because it matched NO ONE!
Indiana likes television. I know, I am a bad mom. Just four months old and already loving the tube. It's his dad's fault. Really. It is "Dragonball Z". Yeah, sure, i turn on the PBS sesame street, Mr Rogers; but that is GOOD TV. But the baby, he likes "Dragonball Z". Him and his dad sit and drool at it. i just don't understand it. I guess you have to be male.
Labor Day Weekend! That means Chris has a three day weekend! That also means he is HOME for those three days.
So...Instead of surfing for fun links, or posting new baby pictures, or even digging up old pictures of Dakota i feel like something soothing. Something to relax me, while my wonderful husband is home for three full days.

This is the last picture we took before Jerry left. He should be somewhere in the sky over the south about now. He is due to be home in Florida sometime this evening. Chris saw his dad one last time this morning before he left for work. I think the visit went reasonably well. We are planning a trip back to Florida to visit him, and the rest of Chris's family still back there sometime next year.